A special bond often exists between a child and their pet. It doesn’t matter if it is a cat or dog of pot-bellied pig. When a pet is a companion and confidante for the child, the connection they share is so sweet. A child receives love without strings and knows that their secrets, hopes and dreams are held in the strictest of confidence. This is what makes the death of a pet so devastating to a child.

Children will not always understand why their pet had to die and as the parent, it is your duty to try and help them. Whatever you do though, do not lie to them because they will eventually find out the truth about their pet’s death. Sometimes, the pet could have run away to die or the veterinarian may have had to euthanize it after a debilitating injury or illness. A parent’s job is a tough one, particularly when consoling a child who is devastated by a pet’s death.

In many ways, a pet is a valuable member of the family. They share in many memories and are often devoted constant companions. You might have perceived your pet as your “child” or they may have been your confidante and best friend. Therefore, it is perfectly natural and normal to experience grief at the loss of a pet.

There is no right or wrong way to grieve for your pet. As each pet and relationship is unique, only you will really know what’s best.

However, here are some helpful ways to help you with the grieving process:

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